You're In Control of 90% of Your Life

If you've been following along on Instagram or heard some of the podcasts I've done, you might be familiar with my story of working in a correctional facility...

I felt like I was trapped in a box, confined, so uncomfortable, and consumed with negativity and unhappiness. I felt suffocated and like I was living out a nightmare of being imprisoned myself, by letting life just happen to me, doing what I thought I "should" do. I wasn't consciously choosing what next steps to take in order to change my situation, I just went with the flow of what was there in front of me.

Once this became so completely unbearable, is when I decided to take the reins and begin DESIGNING that life that I actually wanted for myself, and it was this moment of intense clarity where I came to the realization that I could change my life. It was a profound power that said: “It’s my life and I am in control of it.” 

I had the realization that no one was going to make these changes for me, no one else can care about my life more than myself and I am the only person that can do anything about it. 

We only have ONE known, aware life and we are responsible for all of it, and in our journey of self-discovery and finding what we want to do, creating who we want to become, we must do the internal work and take responsibility for ourselves.

I heard this Charles R. Swindoll quote one time in college and it's stuck with me since, "I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it."

And if one of your dreams is to build a business, then you know by now that sharing your story, your journey of growth, and how it can help your audience, is one of the most powerful tools for transformation that you have. 

And of course, that connecting through VIDEO is the most impactful way to do this. I help you gain the comfortability and confidence on camera to truly shine while helping your audience get to know you, like you and trust you. 

But it all starts with learning to believe in yourself. Know that our thoughts and our emotions impact our reality. So if you feel like you are trapped in a cage, like I did, with all those beliefs of not being good enough, not being capable, and not being worthy, then it’s time to CHOOSE the better thoughts…

 that you are more than enough

 you are brilliant

 you are capable

 you are worthy

It’s only you who can make the most out of your life so make it hella AMAZING!!!

If you want to know more about my past jobs and how my business came to be, check out my Yahoo interview.

Tell me, what is something in your life that you now realize you might be choosing, that is holding you back?

What can you do to change this situation? 

What can you choose instead that will help you grow into your dreams?

xo,

Kellsie